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Saturday, November 24, 2012

Do we really have an END to IT?


      She worked for a call centre..He was a 16 year old boy,about to appear for His boards exam in few months. Almost everyday he would go to bring his sister back home from work. He did the same that day. But destiny had in store something really horrible for the brother and sister. While returning back home they were chased by a gang of boys who tried to sprinkle alcohol on his sister and molest her. On protesting the group pounced on him,started kicking hard and finally stabbed him to death. The girl went on pleading for mercy. She tried to stop vehicles for help,but none stopped. Her cries went unheard.

     Today I did see a mother cry helplessly for her dead son. Everyday while sleeping at night she hopes and prays that everything will turn out to be a horrific dream and that her son will return to her. They are poor and had brought up three kids with lot of trouble. They are still fighting for justice.



      Today I do have a lot of unanswered questions in my mind. We all do have them on listening to such incidents. May be we didn't face them but we do fear ,what we would have done if we had to face the same? What mistake did the boy commit? Tried to save his sister, that was the mistake? Group of boys armed, kills a boy who is unarmed and innocent and single. Wow!! what our society is turning into? What is lacking? What is the exact reason behind all these? The culprits still keeps on threatening the family.. no sign of regret.. they are showing their power of money now. What kind of a justice is this on GOD’s part? The girl is molested almost everyday in court by the opposition lawyer, her parents watch it helplessly.. is this called justice?

      People say whatever God does its done for some good reason.. is their any good reason behind this incident? The family doesn't want sympathy but they want justice.. so that they don’t see another innocent boy dying while trying to save his sister.

      We can listen to such incidents and think and get affected but the actual pain can always be understood by the victim. Parents can only understand what it is to see their child’s   death, their sufferings.

     There are many such incidents which leaves us shocked.. such incidents have destroyed the lives of the victims but their culprits are moving around freely and leading a normal life..examples are that of acid throwing victim Sonali Mukherjee, rape victim Aruna Shanbaug and many others. WHY? What is their mistake? Who have given those inhuman beasts of our society the right to destroy their lives?

Aruna Shanbaug

Sonali Mukherjee


Power should be used for the betterment of society , of individuals who are in need and not use against them.

    I feel our country’s legal system is really lacking somewhere.. I even feel that these beasts should be handed over to the common public.. their judgement should be done by the victims and not by any judge sitting in a room, who doesn't even know what exactly the victim have faced and is still going through.. many may think or say that  common people cant take law in their hands..but answer a simple question of mine as asked before even.. who have given right to those culprits to decide the fate to these innocent people? I feel some example should be really set.. so that these beasts learn a lesson and others think several times before committing such sins..

Maa Kali

    Cant we be a bit more human? Cant we hold a bit more respect for each one of us, specially for girls? A woman does have different faces- she can be your mother, your sister, your girlfriend, your wife, your daughter… what would you do if something as such happened with them? They are not any object to be used and thrown away..when we can give respect to Maa Kali ,Maa Durga , Maa Laxmi, Saraswati then why not a normal female gender? Think.. maybe its time to stop PREYING upon them and start RESPECTING them..


WAKE UP SOCIETY… WAKE UP..!!

11 comments:

  1. i really agree wid u tht there is lack in our legal system bt at the same time even v r lacking somewhere v still believe in non violence n humanity n all even towards culprits. Even u knw many parents stop their girls from wearing short clothes moving out till late ni8s etc bt dnt teach their son how to behave wid girls.

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  2. Agree dear...we need to unitedly find the root cause and try to solve ..so that the future generation doesn't face the same problem

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  3. Agree v need to change the mentality of people first n then unite to fight these bt u knw thts very diff job n in india its far too difficult. U knw there was a gal Thosha Thakkar of my city vadodara who was molested or raped i forgot the details n then was killed n packed in suitcase in Australia n the murderer was given d punishment by law even before the dead body culd reach india. if thng wuld hve happend in India the guy wuld still b roaming out. Thts the sad part of India

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  4. Totally agree...that's the saddest part of India..the legal system ..the corruption is the main thing..everywhr monetary power wins ...

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  5. I agree 100% to u dear india main paisa bolta hai.

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    1. Sachchi...wish this power was used fr the betterment of the society n the needy

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  6. Women who have been recognized as the most beautiful creation of the God in this world are living in a threat in today’s world.
    We have examples of great women in this world from many decades setting example for the coming generationand fighting, sacrificing their lives for noble causes. We have lot of names in our world history where women broke all the barriers and engraved their names in the history of world like few of them listed here – Queen of Jhansi Rani Laxmi Bai, Sarojni Naidu, Fatima a D/O Muhammad, Queen Elizabeth who was known for her beauty, intelligence and boldness, late Mrs Benazir Bhutto, Late Mrs, Indira Gandhi ,former PM of India, who changed the face of an under developed country into a developing and booming country with all her efforts etc. Women be its at home, family, society, always have been a great boon to the society, country and the world as a whole for simple and great reasons as well. . She being responsible for many good and beautiful things on this earth and cause of supporting thehuman race on this earth is a gift of God to us. But a big question mark lies here as to “why women are not safe at any corner?”. In our history and also in the past, we have various examples about torture on women for several causes ; some time in the name of religion, self respect for sake of beliefs, dowry and also for the cause of rich wells, rules and man -made boundaries. But she has always been somewhere or the other treated just like a commodity or a material and most of the time either public or private property.
    It is really unfortunate that metropolitan cities like Delhi which has got so many plus points in the shape of latest technology always tops in the list of women rapes, molestation and wife bashing. Not only this, education is such a strong hold in these metropolitan cities of the country , then why on earth people behave in such a barbaric manner ? In fact in such of the places where women are not safe, the people who buy every thing with the help of money treat woman at par with the sex object.
    Their destiny is not decided by God but by their male family members. Sometime with or without the consent of their mothers who brought them into this world.
    But there are some of the concerns of our society which can be eradicated, removed and abolished with proper growth of literacy in the particular State or villages, awareness in the society and many more measures. My concern is now on a new criminal illegal growth spreading with a spurt in our society that is sexual harassment of a woman.
    In today’s world as our day to day life we come across a lot of news and information in newspapers and through media etc., that women are living with a threat of being sexually harassed or in other words forcefully asked to fulfill the several desires of man without her consent and not only adults, but nowadays teenagers like school and college going girls are facing same threat in their everyday life. This is a practice growing in our society in not only villages and small towns due to illiteracy and ignorance but also seen in most of the number of casesincreasing in our Metropolitan cities.
    I want to throw light on the condition of today’s women and the difficulty they are facing in society in India or in any other part of the world and my effort is not to disrespect any country but to bring reality in terms of individual and showing concern about the matter. This is just a salute to all the women of the world who have made our lives beautiful for the role played by them in their own fine manner.

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  7. Hi Kanks ..

    The guilty should be hanged publicly for this barbaric act ..India needs to follow laws of the Arab countries ..an eye for an eye .. !!


    wish you all the best my dear ..great write ups ..



    luv ..

    ANTHONY GOVEAS

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  8. You r one fiery bong...as the Boss says...:-)
    May there be more of you!
    KD

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